i can't believe i forgot to tell you....

.... i received an email back from my dad!! he was surprised but very happy to hear from me... he agreed with everything i wrote in the email and was suprised to hear about his first grandchildren {who are now 2} and see pics of them and our wedding etc... it felt good to sharethat with him

next on the agenda was telling my mum... i did this straight away because the longer i left it the harder it was going to get {she really hates him}

it went exactly how i expected it to go... she wasn't happy at all {that's putting it nicely} but what surprised me was how threatened she was by this all. i was proud of myself in how i dealth with her reaction and now feel good that it's all out in the open.

so we'll see where things go from here... but i am glad that something that i've been planning to do for years has now been done and i can keep moving forward.

hope you're all having a great day

xxx